I know that many spiritualist do root work on love Many sell come to me spells. As well as love and attraction work, but I don’t do love work for people and people as me why? And here is my answer : You shouldn’t make someone love you, many times I see people trying to keep someone or somebody that is no good for them. Many times people seek to maintain the love that no longer serves them because they do not want to deal with the hurt of letting go and waiting on something else that the universe has for them. If it is a love that is meant to be, it shall return to you if it's not intended to be then the love will be released. Our spirit guides know what is best for us our spirit guides know what we need. When the love doesn't work out work on your healing work on yourself and work on a piece of mind and heart than staying in something that will break you down.
One of the best ways to do some self-healing work in the waning gibbous moon phase that we are in currently to check the moon phases just google current moon phase it will show up as to what moon phase we are in.
This waning moon stage is An excellent time to correct your mistakes and not attract this type of love back into your life. This is a great period to get rid of unwanted negativity and take the time to be a better decision maker in your new season for new love.
Ask yourself What old ways of thinking that you have?
What do you need to get rid of and make your mind, clean and clear
Candle Magick is cleansing and clearing is perfect for this time and communicating to the universe the type of love that you which to attract.
Pure Joyful Magick that you can do to achieve this is
Take a white body candle, or skull candle or plain white glass encased candle
Dress candle with herbs such as rosemary, mugwort, Gotu Kola
Meditate while the candle is lit.
Make sure you're in a bright and clean space that your lighting the candle in and concentrate your desire on cleansing and clearing and verbalize out loud to the universe what is that you do not want and what it is that you do need to happen in this clearing.
Example: I declare and decree that I am cleansed from attracting cheaters in my aura field.
After stating what it is that you are washing and cleaning you can say whatever cleansing prayer that you like from my hoodoo, Christian mystic background we recited
Psalms 51 at least three times or more if the energy that needs to leave is stubborn while the candle was burning, but you can choose whichever prayer resonates with your soul on cleansing and clearing.
If you can stay and meditate on the candle that would be awesome sauce if your using the body or skull candle while its burning and saying your releasing affirmations such I declare and decree I release attracting contrary lovers in my aura field or say what resonates with you and your personal negative love aura story. Such as I declare and order to release ………………..and insert the things that you need to release. Or you can journal what you need to release until the candle burns out if not using a body candle or a skull candle and your using a seven-day candle then meditate a little each day on that candle and your self-love clearing.
If you're staying with your candle then after it burns out. You should take a cleansing bath in rosemary or whichever cleansing herbal bath of your choice. Or you can purchase one in our Etsy shop at bit.ly/livingjoyful
After you get your cleansing bath collect some of your bath water and the candle wax and bury it in the ground or dispense of it in nature. Alternatively, wrap it in the white paper towel and dispose of it.
Then love on you after you done your clearing and cleaning by taking baths in
1 cup of coconut water
7 drops of clary sage
4 drops of lime oil
2 drops of juniper berry
Some fresh rose petals
( need any of these oils https://www.mydoterra.com/livingjoyfulnow)
And get in touch with you and your body and love on you in this time and take this bath as often as you can when you feel like you need it. I suggest staying with it for two weeks and check back to the blog post soon for an easy self-love and attracting ritual for the right love for you in the right moon phase.
Moreover, continue to say your prayer and stay in the light because when you cleanse and love on thyself your true love is not too far behind to follow.